Getting a diagnosis

Edie was born April 2009, the pregnancy was as easy as her older brother Fred, I had an elective c section as I had one with Fred due to fact Fred could not come out naturally, so a c section for Edie seemed the best thing to do.

I was determined to breast feed so tried my best, but even though I thought she was getting enough she dropped almost 20% of her birth weight. (By the way she was delivered at 40 weeks and weighed over 8lbs) So with the big weight loss we had a night in a children’s  ward with bossy doctors sticking me on a pump until I literally dried up over night and even though she was taking formula they weren’t happy. But we did manage to go home the next day and things progressed as the should until Edie was 8 months and she didn’t roll over,the health visitor said she would in the end and she did about 9 months.
Her first birthday came and all was fine but she was not showing any signs of walking let alone crawling or pulling herself up. At 19 months the health visitor did an assessment and Edie showed she was more like a 6-10 month old. That’s when everyone jumped on board. ENT, portage, physio, speech and language, paediatric team..
The paeds team suggested genetic testing and that threw back no answers.

While waiting in limbo and a neurology appointment, we happened to be watching a super nanny program and it had a story about a little lad who dressed in super hero costumes because he was told he needed to look after his little sister….well when this beautiful little girl came on camera it was like looking at Edie!!!! The little girl had RETT syndrome. I had never heard of it even though I worked with youngsters with additional needs.

When the neurology appointment came they mentioned RETT as Edie appeared to be showing some signs and although they still wanted to do an MRI they would ask the genetic team to test for RETT. So they did the test and in February 2012 we got the call. There just so happened that a family had cancelled an appointment at the genetic clinic and would we like to come…..even though the results weren’t due in till the next day. Well we’re not silly but we also didn’t want to put the lady on the phone on the spot so we went along with it. Well anyone who has been to hospital appointments all know you rarely get seen on time, but I had barely got my coat off before the consultant herself asked us into the room.
And that’s when they confirmed Edie has RETT syndrome.

So how do I feel….. Crap it times if I’m honest…why us! Why Edie!.

Unprepared even though I’d had more previous experience with additional adds than most…………but most of all I feel blessed because Edie is the most gorgeous, happy ,cheeky little girl anyone could meet and i love her with every fibre of my being. Her smile is so infectious that people seem to fall in love with her when they meet her..so much so that some lovely guys in our village are doing a sponsored bike ride to raise money for some sensory equipment for her.

She is now at pre school with support and she has everything in place to help her achieve HER goals.

Is it hard? yes at times , but you just get on with it and I know that even though she is now a graduated SWAN this group has been a huge factor in helping me be strong.

Written with love from mummy Claire, daddy Danny, and big brother Fred.


Read all about it! The latest SWAN UK newsletter is out!

Check out the latest edition of The Sygnet here


Rare Disease Strategy Consultation Webinars

As you may be aware, in February the UK’s four health departments launched a joint public consultation on a UK plan for rare diseases. (See the consultation document here).

SWAN UK’s sister organisation, Rare Disease UK is concerned that the consultation document presents an overly optimistic view of ability of each of the UK’s health services to respond effectively to the needs of all patients affected by rare diseases.

Your input is vital and it is important that as many people as possible make their views known about the consultation.

Therefore alongside the RDUK stakeholder events they have organised a series of four webinars. (An online presentation delivered live over the internet where you can ask questions and make comments as it happens).

For further information about the events can be found on the RDUK website or by emailing Samantha@raredisease.org.uk.

The webinar will include a presentation by chair of Rare Disease UK, Alastair Kent and time for questions and discussion.

The aim of these webinars is to present RDUK’s views on the consultation document, to answer questions you may have and to gather your feedback. Each of the webinars will be tailored according to the health service in question to ensure that the feedback we receive is appropriate to that country.

The details of the webinars are as follows;

Northern Ireland – 16th April, 1.30pm – 2.30pm - www.anymeeting.com/RDWebinarNI1

Wales – 16th April, 3.30pm – 4.30pm – www.anymeeting.com/RDWebinarWales1

Scotland – 17th April, 1.30pm – 2.30pm – www.anymeeting.com/RDWebinarScot1

England – 17th April, 3.30pm – 4.30pm – www.anymeeting.com/RDWebinarEngland1

To attend the webinars, please register your interest with Samantha Reeve via email atSamantha@raredisease.org.uk.

If you can’t attend the webinar at the above times don’t worry, you will still be able to watch them at a later date (although you won’t be able to ask questions)

Practical information

Please make sure that your computer is updated to ensure you don’t have any technical difficulties using the programme. You can do this by clicking here anytime before the event is due to begin.

You will need an internet connection and speakers or headphones.

When you join the webinar, please ensure that when entering your information, you write the name of your organisation, or your interest in rare diseases (e.g. patient, carer, professional occupation) into the ‘location box’ NOT your geographical location.

If you have any queries about the consultation or the webinars please do not hesitate to contact Samantha Reeve via email atSamantha@raredisease.org.uk.


Sensory stuff for under £20

Mini Aquarium Bubble Tube

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sound Activated Plasma Ball

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Weighted Bath Bombs

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mirror Sheets (cut to any shape /size)

 

 

 

 

 

Space Blanket

 

 

 

 

 

Remote Control Colour Changing Light Bulb

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

LED Spinner

 

 

 

 

Noisy Animal Paws

 

 

 

 

 

Glow-in-dark Stickers

 

 

 

 

 

Glow-in-dark Foam Sticks

 

 

 

 

Flashing Floating Blinkers

 

 

 

 

 

Flashing Glitter Balls

 

 

 

 

 

Fibre Optic Lights

 

 

 

 

 

Stretchy Ring

 

 

 

 

 

Mirror Ball

 

 

 

 

 

Colour Changing Lights

 

 

 

 

 

Colour Changing Egg

 

 

 

 

 

Mood Light

 

 

 

 

 

Brushes

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Please not that this is for information only and these products are not in anyway endorsed, guaranteed or recommended by SWAN UK or Genetic Alliance UK)


Freddie’s Sensory Room

This blog post was originally published on the blog SwanFreddie

 

We started making Freddies sensory room in summer 2011. Freddie has never been particuarly interested in toys. We bought every toy you could think of but nothing really excited him unless it had something he could spin on it. So we started thinking about making an enviroment for him that would capture his imagination more. Alot of the stuff we wanted to go in there was very expensive & our budget was pretty tight so we had to improvise abit.

The health resources website gives a good explanation as to why a sensory room can be beneficial for children like Freddie -

What are the benefits of a sensory room?

Sensory rooms can have benefits for everyone but may be particularly beneficial for children and adults with special needs, behavioural disorders, sensory processing disorders and disabilities. Sensory rooms are multi-functional and can help to stimulate the senses, as well as relaxing and calming people down. Senses can be stimulated by following flashing, colourful lights, pressing buttons, hearing noises and sounds and feeling different textured materials, but the sensory room can also have a calming influence. The exciting flurry of lights and sounds can quickly be adapted to create a calming, relaxing environment, where people can lie back and be soothed by dim, slow lighting, pleasant, soothing smells and calming music.

The sensory room can be beneficial for many different people. For people with disorders or conditions that affect their senses, the sensory room can help to stimulate their senses and help them to gain a sensory experience, develop new skills and explore their senses. For children with behavioural disorders, a sensory room can help them to take time out and calm down when they are getting anxious and unsettled.

Who can benefit from a sensory room?
Anyone can benefit from a sensory room but they are usually found in children’s nurseries and health centres, clinics and facilities which cater for both adults and children with disabilities, special needs and sensory processing disorders.

In Freddies room we bought a bubble lamp, a fibre optic lamp, some fairy lights & a range of small lights some of which have glitter in them & flash. We bought mirrors for the wall, a beanbag, we put some coathooks on the wall & attached bells to it for Freddie to bat at, we made a wall toy by using a cheap wooden cube toy & sticking it to some mdf, we put some wooden toys on the wall & bought some tactile toys. We also bought some sensory balls & got a small ball pit.

Freddie really likes spending time in his sensory room. It really helps him relax & calm down. Since we made Freddie his sensory room the bubble lamp in it broke & a few of the toys need replacing so we are hoping to get him some bits for his birthday. It’s unfortunate that alot of the sensory equipment we want to go in there is so expensive. Hopefully one day we may be able to do some fundraising to help pay towards some the equipment.




For anybody who doesn’t have the space for a sensory room we sometimes set up a pop up tent in the living room & turn the lights off & fill it with a few sensory lights & toys. It works just as well.


Mail on Sunday article on undiagnosed children

Everyone at SWAN UK is delighted that the Mail on Sunday ran a feature on undiagnosed children yesterday.

If you haven’t seen it yet it is available to read here

Thank you to all the families who took part and shared their stories.

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Genetic Conditions and Insurance – we want to hear from you

Finding the right life, travel or critical illness insurance policy is difficult when you have a genetic condition.

Concerns are often raised by individuals who are uncertain about their rights and obligations in relation to disclosing certain details of genetic risk or family history.

Genetic Alliance UK are aiming to produce accurate and easily accessible information that will help those with genetic conditions by removing the uncertainty and misunderstanding around genetics and insurance, and  providing confidence to approach the insurance industry when seeking insurance.

To do this we need your help -

What information would make it easier for you?

What would make you feel more confident about approaching an insurance company?

What issues have you had when trying to buy insurance?

Do you have any question which you want answered that will help you, and make it easier to find the right insurance policy.

 

The more you tell us the more we can help you – please either leave your comments below or email them directly to  jagdeep@geneticalliance.org.uk


Jack’s Feeding Issues

Jack was born on 23/12/08 and from that moment till now we have had ongoing feeding issues.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Due to severe problems at birth jack was taken straight to the neonatal unit and ventilated therefore he was put onto T.P.N. (total parenteral nutrition) and was fed intravenously, bypassing the usual process of eating and digestion. He received all his nutritional nutrients such as glucose, amino acids, lipids and added vitamins and dietary minerals this way for a few weeks. I’d been expressing my own milk for a few weeks so at 2weeks they decided to start feeding jack this. They started off by giving him half a ml every hour  but this was proving to be hard as he couldn’t digest so every hour they put it in and an hour later they took it back out again and replaced it with another half ml.  This went on for another week till finally he started to absorb the milk, it was a slow process and slowly as he managed to take more of my milk they reduced the T.P.N.

At 5 weeks jack came off the ventilator onto nasal oxygen and continued to be tube fed. We tried with a bottle and it was a no go as he just choked constantly. Jack was moved to another neonatal unit where we were introduced to speech therapist who helped with jack’s bottle feeding by showing me how to rub his cheeks as i was feeding to help him use his oral muscles. I was trained how to use a feeding pump and how to place his NG feeding tube,  finally after 13 wks jack was allowed home.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jack was fed every four hours by pump and i continued with the bottle feeding. It was proofing to be so difficult as jack had severe reflux. We changed milks, added thickeners, gave losec, gaviscon and he still continued to throw up all his feeds.  Alongside this he had mastered the art of pulling out his N.G. tube which his dad and i had to keep replacing. It was a nightmare and the bottle feeding was so distressing to both him and me. I felt like we were going round in circles and nobody would listen. We were tripping back and forth to hospitals seeing consultants and dietitians until finally they realized jack might benefit from a gastrostomy tube and hopefully this might cure his bouts of tonsillitis that they reckoned was being caused by his severe reflux!!!

Finally we got a date to get our gastrostomy tube, 24/02/10 almost a year after he was discharged. The operation went well and jack got home after 2 nights, reflux was cured at last no more boking, cleaning up, changing clothes,  we went back 6 weeks later to get our mini button.

Well days later there it was the reflux was back in full force and the poor child was worse than ever again we were tripping back to dieticians and gp and consultants again for another 6mts until we were seen by the surgeon who said jack was in need of a fundoplication, this is an operation where they tie the top of the stomach around it to stop reflux, the waiting list was quite long???

Jack was admitted to Musgrave to have his cast fitted for his scoliosis in dec 2010.  They found this quite challenging as jacks gastrostomy button was placed so high up his body, so they had to adjust it to suit. He was in theatre for 4hrs, it went well and he was allowed home the next day.

We just got on with dealing with jacks reflux until he was admitted to the royal for his fundoplication  on 01/03/2011.   Surgery went well and they managed to move his button further down to allow more room for his cast again.

We stayed in hospital for 5 nights and he was at last free reflux although he had problems with wind so our community nurses set us up with Farrell bags that was attached to his giving sets to allow the wind to flow out with ease into the bag. This seemed to help.

6 weeks after surgery  just when we thought things were turning the corner jack started to wretch and gag. He was having cold sweats and being so distressed.

This went on for days and into weeks, we were beside ourselves with worry.  He was admitted to hospital for monitoring and had bloods done every 10 mins. Jack had got rid of his reflux and in its place came dumping syndrome. His stomach contents were emptying to quickly into his bowel and that was making his sugar levels drop significantly low.  His feeds were changed yet again and his volume levels reduced to 50 ml/ph and extra fats added. This was great and we ploughed on.

Jack has failed to gain any weight in 18mts due to all this and still remains a problem. Things have finally settled although he’s still not getting the required amount, he just can’t tolerate it.

We have started with tasters and they are going well. I sit faithfully every 2hrs and do this and so far it has paid off.  Jack is now able to take a full pot of petite filous. He still pushes my hand away when he sees the spoon coming towards him but through time fingers crossed we hope he will improve. We have an appointment next month to see a gastroenterologist so hopefully he will be able to give us some answers as to why jack remains to have so many feeding problems……


JJ’s eating habits

ok so where do i start with it?

From the moment he gets up to the moment he goes to bed he is constantly thirsty and hungry

It’s like he doesn’t know when he is full up he wants seconds all the time and will try and take others food he will take food with out telling you .

He will also have meltdowns when you say no which will turn to him hitting me if he doesn’t get what he wants .
He eats and drinks very fast with in a second of having his drink it gone .

I don’t have a medical name for this problem it might be down to his SPD sensory processing disorder but im not sure .


Matthew’s eating issues

Where would I even begin on this subject!

The first 6 months of Matthews life where like a living nightmare!

From birth he was unable to suck properly. Due to his failure to thrive he was on a strict 3hrly feeding regime day and night. Might not sound like much but used to take over 1 hr to take 30 mls! Often topped up with ng tube feeds.

Speech therapy offered no real help. Life changed at 6mths when we ditched the bottles and gave everything by spoon (thickened milk to sloppy consistency) to this day Matthew hasn’t actually stopped eating.

Complete turnaround in that it is now a problem as he never stops, doesn’t know when he is full and eats anything including hairs (believe this is known as PICA and is an ongoing problem with Matthew).

Believe it or not due to a strict controlled diet, locked cupboards and constant supervision Matthew is not actually overweight! I wonder if his eating probs come from his undiagnosed syndrome. All other common ones like prader willi have been ruled out by genetics.

I’m sure most of u other swan mums can relate to some of this and I suppose in a way I think we r lucky as Matthew feeds orally but it has it’s only daily battles and health issues most of which r hidden under the surface!

On another note to make u laugh I used to blame Matthew when I gained a lb in weight as being a swan mummy I eat when I get good news or Matthew achieves something AND I also eat when I hear bad news or something upsets me when Matthew is struggling! A wee intro to our eating issues with my swan Matthew. Happy reading x


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